{"id":1089,"date":"2024-06-04T09:37:54","date_gmt":"2024-06-04T08:37:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stnicholascompton.org\/?page_id=1089"},"modified":"2024-08-15T15:54:33","modified_gmt":"2024-08-15T14:54:33","slug":"marriage","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/stnicholascompton.org\/index.php\/life-events\/marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"pl-1089\"  class=\"panel-layout\" ><div id=\"pg-1089-0\"  class=\"panel-grid panel-has-style\" ><div class=\"siteorigin-panels-stretch panel-row-style panel-row-style-for-1089-0\" data-stretch-type=\"full\" ><div id=\"pgc-1089-0-0\"  class=\"panel-grid-cell\" ><div id=\"panel-1089-0-0-0\" class=\"so-panel widget widget_sow-hero panel-first-child panel-last-child\" data-index=\"0\" ><div\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tclass=\"so-widget-sow-hero so-widget-sow-hero-default-1554550ebce1-1089 so-widget-fittext-wrapper\"\n\t\t\t data-fit-text-compressor=\"0.85\"\n\t\t>\t\t\t\t<div class=\"sow-slider-base\" style=\"display: none\" tabindex=\"0\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<ul\n\t\t\t\t\tclass=\"sow-slider-images\"\n\t\t\t\t\tdata-settings=\"{&quot;pagination&quot;:true,&quot;speed&quot;:800,&quot;timeout&quot;:8000,&quot;paused&quot;:false,&quot;pause_on_hover&quot;:false,&quot;swipe&quot;:true,&quot;nav_always_show_desktop&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;nav_always_show_mobile&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;breakpoint&quot;:&quot;780px&quot;,&quot;unmute&quot;:false,&quot;anchor&quot;:null}\"\n\t\t\t\t\tstyle=\"min-height: 400px\"\t\t\t\t\tdata-anchor-id=\"\"\n\t\t\t\t>\t\t<li class=\"sow-slider-image  sow-slider-image-cover\" style=\"visibility: visible;;background-color: #333333\" >\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"sow-slider-image-container\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"sow-slider-image-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t<h1>Marriage<\/h1>\n<h5>To have and to hold<\/h5>\n<h5><\/h5>\n<h3><\/h3>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"sow-slider-image-overlay sow-slider-image-cover\" style=\"opacity: 0.5;background-image: url(https:\/\/stnicholascompton.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/HoldingHands-scaled.jpeg)\"  ><\/div>\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t<\/ul>\t\t\t\t<ol class=\"sow-slider-pagination\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li><a href=\"#\" data-goto=\"0\" aria-label=\"Display slide 1\"><\/a><\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/ol>\n\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"sow-slide-nav sow-slide-nav-next\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"#\" data-goto=\"next\" aria-label=\"Next slide\" data-action=\"next\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<em class=\"sow-sld-icon-thin-right\"><\/em>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"sow-slide-nav sow-slide-nav-prev\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"#\" data-goto=\"previous\" aria-label=\"Previous slide\" data-action=\"prev\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<em class=\"sow-sld-icon-thin-left\"><\/em>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"pg-1089-1\"  class=\"panel-grid panel-no-style\" ><div id=\"pgc-1089-1-0\"  class=\"panel-grid-cell\" ><div id=\"panel-1089-1-0-0\" class=\"so-panel widget widget_sow-headline panel-first-child panel-last-child\" data-index=\"1\" ><div\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tclass=\"so-widget-sow-headline so-widget-sow-headline-default-ab114dab351f-1089\"\n\t\t\t\n\t\t><div class=\"sow-headline-container \">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"sow-headline\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\"Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.\" 1 Corinthians 13\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/h2>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"decoration\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"decoration-inside\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"pg-1089-2\"  class=\"panel-grid panel-no-style\" ><div id=\"pgc-1089-2-0\"  class=\"panel-grid-cell\" ><div id=\"panel-1089-2-0-0\" class=\"so-panel widget widget_sow-editor panel-first-child\" data-index=\"2\" ><div class=\"panel-widget-style panel-widget-style-for-1089-2-0-0\" ><div\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tclass=\"so-widget-sow-editor so-widget-sow-editor-base\"\n\t\t\t\n\t\t><h3 class=\"widget-title\">Getting married<\/h3>\n<div class=\"siteorigin-widget-tinymce textwidget\">\n\t<p><strong>If you\u2019re thinking of getting married in church, firstly may we congratulate you on your engagement!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Marriage is a very ancient idea.\u00a0 The Bible suggests it goes right back to Adam and Eve, who were \u2018made for each other.\u2019\u00a0 Jesus loved a good wedding: he turned water into wine at a wedding reception, his first recorded miracle.\u00a0 Even today, marriage exists in practically every country and culture on earth.<\/p>\n<p>So marriage has always been part of God\u2019s good plan for us.\u00a0 And no wonder!\u00a0 A good marriage is healthy, freeing and life-giving. Christians believe that marriage is a gift from God.\u00a0 A church wedding ceremony at St. Nicholas not only provides you with the setting of a beautiful church building but there is also something in a public commitment of this magnitude that has a deeper spiritual element to it and which can transform a relationship to a new and deeper level.<\/p>\n<p>You will need to know about some legal requirements and procedures. These are important!\u00a0So, to start with we\u2019d invite you to contact our Parish Administrator and then come and chat to our Rector, Rev Sally Buddle<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"panel-1089-2-0-1\" class=\"so-panel widget widget_sow-editor\" data-index=\"3\" ><div class=\"panel-widget-style panel-widget-style-for-1089-2-0-1\" ><div\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tclass=\"so-widget-sow-editor so-widget-sow-editor-base\"\n\t\t\t\n\t\t><h3 class=\"widget-title\">Banns of Marriage<\/h3>\n<div class=\"siteorigin-widget-tinymce textwidget\">\n\t<p>Banns are an announcement of your intention to marry and a chance for anyone to put forward a reason why the marriage may not lawfully take place.\u00a0Banns need to be read in the Parish where each of you lives as well as the church in which you are to be married, if that is another Parish.\u00a0You must have your Banns read out in church for three Sundays (during our 10.30am Service) during the three months before the wedding. Most couples try to get along to hear their Banns being read at least once.<\/p>\n<p>If you are marrying in another parish please contact the church office for details on having your banns read at St Nicholas.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"panel-1089-2-0-2\" class=\"so-panel widget widget_sow-image-grid panel-last-child\" data-index=\"4\" ><div class=\"panel-widget-style panel-widget-style-for-1089-2-0-2\" ><div\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tclass=\"so-widget-sow-image-grid so-widget-sow-image-grid-default-8bf08a9600e8-1089\"\n\t\t\t\n\t\t>\t<div\n\t\tclass=\"sow-image-grid-wrapper\"\n\t\tdata-max-width=\"300\"\t\tdata-max-height=\"300\"\t>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"sow-image-grid-image\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"400\" height=\"400\" src=\"https:\/\/stnicholascompton.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/RSWedding1-400x400.jpg\" class=\"sow-image-grid-image_html\" alt=\"\" title=\"R&#038;SWedding1\" 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https:\/\/stnicholascompton.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/WeddingC-375x375.jpg 375w\"  sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"sow-image-grid-image\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"400\" height=\"400\" src=\"https:\/\/stnicholascompton.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/WeddingA-400x400.jpg\" class=\"sow-image-grid-image_html\" alt=\"\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/stnicholascompton.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/WeddingA-400x400.jpg 400w, https:\/\/stnicholascompton.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/WeddingA-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/stnicholascompton.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/WeddingA-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/stnicholascompton.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/WeddingA-210x210.jpg 210w, https:\/\/stnicholascompton.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/WeddingA-375x375.jpg 375w\"  sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" 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It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.&#8221; 1 Corinthians 13 Getting married If you\u2019re thinking of getting married in church, firstly may we congratulate you on your engagement! Marriage is a very ancient idea.\u00a0 The Bible suggests it goes right back to Adam and Eve, who were \u2018made for each other.\u2019\u00a0 Jesus loved a good wedding: he turned water into wine at a wedding reception, his first recorded miracle.\u00a0 Even today, marriage exists in practically every country and culture on earth. So marriage has always been part of God\u2019s good plan for us.\u00a0 And no wonder!\u00a0 A good marriage is healthy, freeing and life-giving. Christians believe that marriage is a gift from God.\u00a0 A church wedding ceremony at St. Nicholas not only provides you with the setting of a beautiful church building but there is also something in a public commitment of this magnitude that has a deeper spiritual element to it and which can transform a relationship to a new and deeper level. You will need to know about some legal requirements and procedures. These are important!\u00a0So, to start with we\u2019d invite you to contact our Parish Administrator and then come and chat to our Rector, Rev Sally Buddle Banns of Marriage Banns are an announcement of your intention to marry and a chance for anyone to put forward a reason why the marriage may not lawfully take place.\u00a0Banns need to be read in the Parish where each of you lives as well as the church in which you are to be married, if that is another Parish.\u00a0You must have your Banns read out in church for three Sundays (during our 10.30am Service) during the three months before the wedding. Most couples try to get along to hear their Banns being read at least once. 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